30 Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone Better

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Do you want to get to know someone better? The best way to do so is through conversation. If you’re going on a date and want to have a couple of questions up your sleeve for those just-in-case moments, I have you covered. Here are 30 questions that can turn small talk into a real conversation.

  1. What’s your go-to guilty pleasure?
  2.  How do you like your coffee?
  3. What are your biggest pet peeves?
  4. Do you believe in having a “five-year plan”? If so, do you have one?
  5. How do you deal with stress?
  6. Do you want to have a family of your own?
  7. What’s the best piece of advice a family member has given you?
  8. If you want children, how do you want to raise them?
  9. Do you believe in conspiracy theories? (non-judgemental question)
  10. If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  11. Do you have allergies?
  12. If you could change anything about yourself, would you?
  13. What’s your favorite tv show/movie?
  14. If you came back as an animal in your next life, what animal do you think you would be?
  15. There’s a puddle on the ground, do you walk around it or jump right in?
  16. Does your family go on trips together?
  17. What do you think of supernatural life? Do you believe we’re alone in the universe?
  18. How do you think your perspective has changed over the years?
  19. What’s a relationship deal-breaker for you?
  20. Which family member are you the closest to?
  21. What’s your favorite way to exercise?
  22. Pick your favorite meal: breakfast, lunch, or dinner?
  23. What’s your favorite book?
  24. How do you practice self-care?
  25. What was the best vacation you took, and why?
  26. How would you describe yourself? An introvert or an extrovert?
  27. Who was your celebrity crush growing up?
  28. What was the worst job you ever had?
  29. Do you love what you do (As a career)?
  30. Which is more important? Friends or family?

Now you have 30 questions to help you get to know someone. All you have to do is use them!


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