To have a one night stand or not, that is the question. Listen, first and foremost, it’s important you know that this post isn’t meant to judge you.
Who am I to tell you that having one is bad? I don’t think it is. One night stands can be extremely fulfilling and fun.
What it’s intended to do is help you make decisions that are the best for you. Let’s be honest, one night stands have been highlighted as something that’s a must-do experience. But is it?
Good question! Whether you agree with having one night stands or not, it’s good to understand why people engage in them.
Okay, there are tons of reasons why someone would have one, but some of the common reasons are:
So you know the reasons why someone would have a one night stand. When you reflect on yourself, where do you see yourself?
Why are you having one night stands? Is it because you’ve clicked with a person, and you want to have an experience with them? Or is it because you want to feel validated? Feel worthy?
These are questions you need to ask yourself. By self-reflecting, you can engage in sex that’s right for you, whether it’s a one night stand or not.
You’re curious about having a one night stand or want to have one with the right mindset? Here are the signs you’re ready for a rendezvous.
Whether you’re thinking about having one or you’re doing some self-reflection, here are the signs one night stands are not for you.
Listen, if there’s one thing you take away from this post, it’s that you should never feel like you have to engage in sex with someone.
Sure, maybe your friends are into it, but if you’re not, that’s okay. Listen to your body and soul.
I sound a little hippie, but it’s true. Sex is an exchange of energy; it’s something that requires you to share the most intimate parts of yourself.
That said, if you’re choosing to have sex with someone, make sure it feels right. This doesn’t mean they need to be “the one,” but it means to do it with positive intentions for yourself.
The world of sex isn’t so simple. Some of us are holding out for the one, while other people have new experiences here and there. We’re all different.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in dating writing, as long as you’re being intimate for positive reasons (and not destructively), continue doing what makes you happy.
If you want to increase intimacy and connection in the boudoir, here’s what you need to do.
So, if you’re reading this, there’s a chance that you’re not feeling good about your relationship. If you’re asking yourself, is my relationship toxic? It’s time to know the signs. Here are the signs of a toxic relationship.
You’ve met someone that you’re sure is the one. Now, I’m not going to tell you you’re wrong. I don’t even know you! But here’s the thing, are they really the one? Here’s how to know if you met the one.
Rather than asking are rough patches in a relationship normal, what you should be asking yourself is what’s causing them and how to overcome those rough patches.
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